September 10, 2009

How Can It Feel So Right When It's Wrong

'Sometimes in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. Maybe you'll find it in a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding, but there's also the chance that the one person you can count on for a lifetime, the one person who knows you sometimes better than you know yourself is the same person who's been standing beside you all along.' - Bride Wars the movie

What if, that one person doesnt feel like you've been there for them the same way they've been there for you. As if the one person only sees 'you' instead of 'us'.
You really can find that one person you can count on for a lifetime, but what if the one person doesnt feel like they can count on you.
Its not about how do you find that one person for yourself, its about how do you keep that one person to be standing beside you and how to seal that bonds forever. Just because you know they'll stand there by you no matter what, doesnt mean they'll stand by you forever.